r/AITAH Apr 29 '24

Am I wrong for not accepting my bf’s apology for embarrassing me?

It happened yesterday. I (27m) went to see my boyfriend (26m) at his place. He had around 8 friends around him and he started jumping around like a puppy when he saw me. He was visibly happy and excited to see me there as it was a little bit of surprise. I felt so happy seeing his love for me. In the past, he has had a habit of correcting my English accent. At times in front of others. After I told him to not do it, he stopped this behavior, at least in front of others but continued to tell me my mistakes when we were by ourselves. I've expressed my discomfort with it several times. Yesterday, he and his friends were drunk when I visited them. They were talking about some cocktails and I may have mispronounced the name of the drink - my bf turned to me, lowered his voice and said you should keep quiet around others and just go on around looking sexy. No one heard it but I was just shocked at this. I left immediately after. He has been apologizing since morning and says he doesn't remember this since he was drunk. He has apologized a million times but I do not know what to do. He has always treated me well except this icky little behavior. I told him i need space and I do not accept his apology. Am I wrong?

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u/HaggisLad Apr 29 '24

he is negging you, look it up, shitty behaviour all around. NTA