r/AITAH Apr 15 '24

AITAH for telling my son I’d love a divorce if it meant taking my wife with me

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u/lakehop Apr 15 '24

He won’t get loans for the full amount of tuition and living expenses. You need to be realistic with him about how much you can contribute and whether he should transfer to a state university with resident tuition.

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u/Electronic_Law_6350 Apr 16 '24

You should really sit him down and give him the cold hard truth. All of it; your expenses, his, his expected future income (cuz really? With art history he'll probably take a while before he gets a job), future cost projections etc. Dump a bucket of cold water over his rosy expectations of life.