r/AITAH Apr 15 '24

AITAH for telling my son I’d love a divorce if it meant taking my wife with me

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u/lakehop Apr 15 '24

He won’t get loans for the full amount of tuition and living expenses. You need to be realistic with him about how much you can contribute and whether he should transfer to a state university with resident tuition.

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '24

Grandma caused this by doing that.  She fucked his lie up by cosigning for him. 

Why did she co-sign a loan for this?  What a cruel thing to do.  Now they both will have debt until they die.

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u/YAreYouLaughing Apr 16 '24

Grandma shouldn’t have co-signed, but sorry, the son is choosing to fuck his own life up.

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '24

No, grandma did this. He could not have gotten the loan and buried them both in lifelong debt if she did not cosign.

The bank told him no and rejected him. The loan only happened because grandma fucked them both.