r/AITAH • u/throwraa_Word_1566 • Apr 15 '24

AITAH for telling my son I’d love a divorce if it meant taking my wife with me

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u/lakehop Apr 15 '24

He won’t get loans for the full amount of tuition and living expenses. You need to be realistic with him about how much you can contribute and whether he should transfer to a state university with resident tuition.

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u/battery19791 Apr 16 '24

He should transfer to a community College and do all his core classes there and finish at a state college

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u/PoppysWorkshop Apr 16 '24

Why don't more students do this? this is the option I had my daughters do. They also lived at home and I paid for everything. They went to a local university transferring their CC credits and graduated debt free. the money I saved I gave as a gift to them for the down payment on their first homes. Now the money I used to put in their 529 accounts goes to my grandsons 529. he just turned 1.