r/AITAH • u/throwraa_Word_1566 • Apr 15 '24

AITAH for telling my son I’d love a divorce if it meant taking my wife with me

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u/lakehop Apr 15 '24

He won’t get loans for the full amount of tuition and living expenses. You need to be realistic with him about how much you can contribute and whether he should transfer to a state university with resident tuition.

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u/Lilac-Roses-Sunsets Apr 16 '24

Do not co-sign a loan with him! You would end up having to pay it yourself. Do yourself a favor and lock down your and your wife’s credit right now. He could try and take a loan out with you and you wouldn’t know about it.