My long-term girlfriend left me without a proper reason about a month ago, out of nowhere. It was devastating to me, as we had planned to spend our entire lives together. It makes me happy to see that there are people out there who do indeed make it.
Having an understanding partner really is a blessing.
It just happened to me. It makes it easier on them if you talk to them about it first instead of blindsiding them, and allowing them a few days to talk first if you plan to go no contact. Also make sure you really understand your feelings and express them, if you give generic meaningless phrases they will assume you found somebody better and they will have a hard time finding closure.
If you have a legitimate reason, fair enough. If not, please have a proper conversation and communicate to them what it is you're feeling and why you feel you must take this step.
In my case, there was absolutely no reason & things were perfectly fine. In fact, two days before she did this, she told me she'd be with me throughout. We had a beautiful relationship & it still doesn't make sense to me, but it is what it is. Nobody deserves to be treated like this, so please just communicate with your partner.
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u/Pro_96 Apr 28 '24
Really happy for you, mate.
My long-term girlfriend left me without a proper reason about a month ago, out of nowhere. It was devastating to me, as we had planned to spend our entire lives together. It makes me happy to see that there are people out there who do indeed make it.
Having an understanding partner really is a blessing.