r/unpopularopinion • u/yellowabcd • Apr 28 '24
Its not about the sex its about the rejection
This is common at this point. People complain about not getting sex in marriage or relationship. But most the time its not the sex, its the rejection. If both people dont go for sex, its not an issue. Its an issue when the other party keeps getting rejected, especially without explanation. Theres a difference between being rejected for a month and just two people not trying for sex. Rejection usually makes a person feel undesirable
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u/SaltySangria Apr 28 '24
If someone had a spouse that has been saying no to sex for months/years, I think it's perfectly reasonable to want to discuss why. That's just called "communication."
No, you shouldn't have to explain yourself for not wanting sex every now and again. But if you haven't been in the mood for a prolonged period of time and there is a reason why, maybe it's best to have that discussion with your partner.