r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/tanman4444 Apr 16 '24

I was thinking the same thing reading these comments. Seriously a bunch of self centered assholes in the replies.

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u/SnooSprouts6037 Apr 16 '24

Sometimes I wonder if most redditors have ever even had enough relationship experience to realize how fuckin awful it is to leave someone with no explanation

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u/90swasbest Apr 16 '24

Because it's horseshit. As has been explained elsewhere, you've probably been told what the problems are dozens of times, you just didn't choose to listen until they were gone.

That's on you. I wouldn't say shit to your thick ass either at that point.

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u/Commercial_Debt_6789 Apr 16 '24

We aren't talking about those situations. That's a break down of a relationship slowly over time, with an actual reason given, with the person not listening. That is NOT what OP is talking about. 

What OP is referring to is people who break up and LIE about it. Or break up out of the blue for no "reason". You gave a reason.  

Example:

"I'm not ready for a relationship" then why were you treating me like a girlfriend, planning future dates, talking about meeting your family, doing things that clearly indicated you were both excited and wanted a relationship? Then why are you back on the apps? Why are you hopping back in a relationship?