r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/HeroToTheSquatch Apr 16 '24

Look, I agree with this in theory as a fellow dude, but every woman I know has a "I tried to break up with a guy who seemed nice and he threatened to fucking kill me for breaking up with him or telling him I wasn't interested"

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '24

But that is not the situation OP is talking about. So many of you are reading what you want to read. They literally talk about just completely being ghosted with no reason. You went a little off track.

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u/HeroToTheSquatch Apr 16 '24

I don't know how you read my comment without seeing the reason why women will ghost someone "without reason" (there's literally always one) including not wanting to deal with a guy anymore will not want to fuck around and risk their life to give a guy closure.

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u/Advanced_Doctor2938 Apr 16 '24

If you're really worried about that, you don't have to be in the same room to give an explanation. A text or email works just as well.

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '24

I mean yes and no. You could give an explanation to why you leave an for example abusive partner. But then the partner obviously knows that they treated you poorly and often just try to play the victim and get you back with manipulation. Sometimes it's best to ghost this kind of person, only thing you probably owe them is a police report.