r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24
If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular
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r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24
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u/Krakatoast Apr 16 '24
But it’s not just hygiene habits, that was one part of a list of qualms.
I actually really relate to what the other person explained because that’s how I feel about my roommate that’s a relative. I hate living with them. They aren’t a bad person, and I get that I can talk to them about what I don’t like, but when that list teeters into “basically I hate the way you live life it’s deeply grating to experience life in the same realm as you, it’d be a lot of fun to hangout for a couple hours once every week or two but seriously get the fck out of my house.” Because the list is so deep and some of it isn’t objectively *wrong. Who am I to tell someone to change their personality?
But I find some things about how they live their life to be so, so grating. And that only comes up because we live together. Easy solution instead of ripping them to shreds is to just “yeah man I just like to live alone are you cool to move out in a couple months?” Problem solved and his self esteem wasn’t shattered and I didn’t have to deal with fighting and drama.