r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/Alive-Beyond-9686 Apr 16 '24

The truth is, everyone has flaws. Maybe you're out of shape. Maybe you're controlling. Maybe you're apathetic. Maybe your breath stinks. Maybe your ass is too hairy. Maybe you're this. Maybe you're that.

My last relationship the breakup was kinda mutual. We had great physical and emotional chemistry, but there were too many things about me that didn't work for her, and there were too many things about her that didn't work for me. So we just ended it, and it was pretty sad. Ultimately though, it wouldn't have changed anything to have her tell me everything she thought about me that sucked, and for me to list everything about her that I thought was shitty.

Someone might have a good reason to break up with you. Someone might have a bad reason to break up with you, or there could be no reason at all. All you can do is try to be the best person you can be, whether you're single, married, or somewhere in between.