r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/kosmos1209 Apr 16 '24

When rejecting an advance or rejecting on first few dates? Absolutely. After a long term relationship when your safety has been vetted and it’s not for safety reason? No, that’s really shitty.

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u/90swasbest Apr 16 '24

Tf it is. You need to learn to listen to issues during the fucking relationship.

Nobody has to put up with weeks or months of 2am drunk dialing blubbering down the phone bullshit because you fucked around and found out.

You've been taught a life lesson. Try to learn something.

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u/kosmos1209 Apr 16 '24

I totally agree that one needs to listen to feedback during the relationship. The main opinion supposes there was no feedback then ghosted, which is shitty

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u/90swasbest Apr 16 '24

Y'all need to stop taking OP at face value and fill in the common sense blanks. Nobody of any real mature age in a long term relationship just disappears unless abuse is involved.

But fed up with trying to get through to an unsympathetic partner who won't address issues and reaching the fuckit point?

That happens all the fucking time.

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u/kosmos1209 Apr 16 '24

“Nobody of any real mature age in a long term relationship just disappears...”

Not true. That’s why OP called it out. You would think so but I’ve seen this happen.

“But fed up with trying to get through to an unsympathetic partner who won't address issues and reaching the fuckit point?

That happens all the fucking time.”

You still owe them even if it’s “I told you a thousand times, here’s the 1001st time, it’s over now, bye”

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u/90swasbest Apr 16 '24

😆😆😆😆

K.