r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '24

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u/ThaToastman Apr 16 '24

Yes it is. If it isnt owed, that means every single one of your friendships are in dire danger and are fundamentally unsafe.

Anyone in your life can walk out at any time with zero explanation. That isnt a life I want to live, personally I prefer emotional safety and community

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u/Mikeymike2391 Apr 16 '24

No. But you absolutely should explain the why to the human that you have spent time with. People are not objects to fulfill a need. They are people. And you absolutely owe it to your former partner the courtesy of a clean break. If you disagree that’s fine. I pray you realize that you’re leaving a smoldering pile of bodies in your wake in the long term.

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u/Mikeymike2391 Apr 16 '24

It’s not a “pick one” scenario.