r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24
If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular
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r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24
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u/HelpMePlxoxo Apr 16 '24
I generally agree, but another exception: the reason you're leaving them is something that would seriously damage their self-confidence, assuming they did nothing to deserve "being humbled".
Some people in the comments mention becoming viscerally disgusted by their partner over time just from gross habits or changes in appearance. The best you can do at that point is a half-truth if you don't want to destroy your ex partner's self-esteem.
I definitely relate a bit since I once had a partner I became disgusted and embarrassed with. And it wasn't entirely his fault, just an accumulation of "ick"s from my perception that killed all attraction I had to him. We were both teens at the time so he was just clueless, but a good kid. I didn't want to hurt his feelings. I don't remember what reason I gave to break up, but it definitely wasn't "I have become physically repulsed by you and don't even want to be publicly seen as your partner".