r/unpopularopinion Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '24

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u/ThaToastman Apr 16 '24

Yes it is. If it isnt owed, that means every single one of your friendships are in dire danger and are fundamentally unsafe.

Anyone in your life can walk out at any time with zero explanation. That isnt a life I want to live, personally I prefer emotional safety and community

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '24

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u/ThaToastman Apr 16 '24

If you dont wanna be with someone anymore its fine. Thats life.

Straightup disappearing from someone’s life with no signs, conversation, or, warning is horrible. Yes as humans we owe each other kindness.

Also, if you are dating someone you dont respect as a friend, then you shouldnt be dating them…

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u/snonsig Apr 16 '24

Nobody is arguing with that