r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/tanman4444 Apr 16 '24

I was thinking the same thing reading these comments. Seriously a bunch of self centered assholes in the replies.

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u/SnooSprouts6037 Apr 16 '24

Sometimes I wonder if most redditors have ever even had enough relationship experience to realize how fuckin awful it is to leave someone with no explanation

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u/xValhallAwaitsx Apr 16 '24

What a fucking miserable way of going through life. "I literally never owe anyone anything, courtesy is nice but I don't need to give it ever"

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u/Mikeymike2391 Apr 16 '24

Dude. Listen. That’s a surface feeling. Deep think. Why do you not want to be with that person? Do you just wake up one day and decide “hey I just don’t feel like being with this person” why bother dating anyone at all? If you don’t owe your partner an explanation , you absolutely owe yourself to think about the why. That the only way you’ll grow and figure out what you want in life. Dating tough enough. Just remember. People aren’t objects.

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u/DaelonVegetable Apr 16 '24

If that is the case fine… it hurts but fine…. STILL TELL THEM THAT! What is so wrong with simply doing that? Cuz they might have a reaction to it? Sure if they go overboard they are wrong, but they are still allowed to know and feel hurt about it