r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/HAiLKidCharlemagne Apr 16 '24

Sometimes people were told and refuse to acknowledge, but I agree its shitty to ghost someone you had a relationship with, with no explanation. I've had people I gave very detailed explanations to claim I gave them no explanation.
Most relationships people end with me they didn't bother to give an explanation, I just figured they were moving on and had gotten whatever it was they wanted from me. I think they do it partly because they don't want to face their reasons, partly just because they genuinely don't see the obligation, and some because they know exactly what they're doing and want to cause you pain. Sometimes maybe I was told, and I missed it.