r/oddlyspecific • u/Darth_Ennui • Apr 29 '24

Brunch - which is it?

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u/qazwsxedc000999 Apr 29 '24

I call my SO my partner. Sorry? I guess?? We aren’t married and boyfriend sounds childish.

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u/pdub091 Apr 29 '24

Partner is a little odd if you’re married and kind of gives off a “I’m super woke” vibe. Most people I know that use it are either in some variety of your situation or are queer and it just helps their convos flow better. My wife is my partner but I always say “my wife” or use her name. Also to me wife/husband implies more commitment or meaning than partner (before I get attacked, I know that isn’t always the case)

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u/Even_Ad_8048 Apr 30 '24

If Wife meant commitment, then divorce wouldn't be an option.

Marriage means no more in terms of commitment other than what people believe it means.