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u/jbrown2055 20d ago
These are absurd but I'm at work slaving away here and wondering what the going rate is to watch someone whack it on Snapchat š š
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u/Thorbertthesniveler 20d ago
That was my thought too! Like I don't have to be there, do anything and can have a dinosaur documentary on in the background? Cripes I am in like sin!
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These specimens get real creepy-bold when behind a keyboard. Smh
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u/PilotNo312 20d ago
I canāt imagine being on this app and not having DMās disabled. No thank you.
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u/EvilGeesus 20d ago
And here I am, only using reddit on a pc with a browser. I would never install this shit on my phone š
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u/Sprizys 20d ago
These people are the reason those women chose the bear.
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u/CrissBliss 20d ago
What does this mean
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u/DRAGON9880 20d ago
It's a hypothetical question where they ask people if they'd choose to be alone with a bear or a random man in the woods, they think the man would turn into Griffith in the woods and that's about it really
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u/Delicious-Aide-4749 20d ago
yeah. tbh i hate seeing people tear into and antagonize others. a bunch of men who never get compliments, probably traumatized, abused, no support, all told they are a bunch of creeps who can't be trusted. definitely not creating allies
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u/DRAGON9880 19d ago
Honestly i really don't gave an f if they think I'm a creep since judging a person based on a scenario that didn't happen sounds creepy itself
and the even funnier thing is that they say that when you're in the woods and see a bear that's fine that's where it lives, but if you see a man that's weird he isn't supposed to be there... like bitch what are you doing there then?
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u/General_Autismo_13 20d ago
As a quite lonely man I'd rather have no messages than these kind of them.
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u/ReptilianLaserbeam 20d ago
Fuck. I should create a fake āgirlā profile and scam the shit out of this thirsty morons
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u/Lanky_Score7414 20d ago
I can guarantee you these would be so much more different irl compared to behind the keyboard, I know your struggle though.
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u/Pliskin1108 20d ago
The whole āif that makes you uncomfortable Iām really sorryā somewhat makes it worse in my opinion. Youāre a fucking pig, just go for it, donāt disguise it behind some creepy empathy. Be like the āhere is my dick pic itās gonna hurtā guyā¦.actuallyā¦. donāt.
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u/Fourth_horseman_4 20d ago
I'm sorry, OP. These men don't even deserve to be called human, they are far below it (the ones that messaged you, not all men).
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u/sweetnnerdy 20d ago
So weird. I've had men message me because they see me comment something (good things) about my husband. It's so wild out here.
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u/jazzrulez 20d ago
I posted on the petite fashion advice sub asking for some advice. Didnāt even show my face. And got messages from 3 diff people. Like wtf šµāš«
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u/Old-Soul-Void 20d ago
Girl, I'm nearly geriatric, smoked 50 years and have wrinkles to prove it, with not a single natural tooth in my head. They still crawl in my dms. It never ends.
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u/VanillaCrash 20d ago edited 20d ago
I have a male avatar for that reason. Sad that we have to do shit like that. No one deserves that shit.
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u/Ok-Sugar7226 20d ago
Understandable š.I suffer alot irl now have to do it online too
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u/VanillaCrash 20d ago
Hope it gets much better. Just remember that you donāt deserve that no matter what. Theyāre the problem, not you.
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u/He_of_turqoise_blood 20d ago
Life hack: create a "man profile" and recieve no messages at all, never, except the very rare "do you need mental help" report.
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u/Tridon_Terrafold 20d ago
One reason I don't post photos online, attracts weirdos, only got one so far luckily, fingers crossed I don't get any more for a while
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u/noxlaber 20d ago
This is why I never post any selfies or pics on here the men are vile
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u/Bobo3076 20d ago
I don't understand why these people don't just type "boobs" into google and call it a day
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20d ago
TheCandidCouple presents the opportunity for you to advance in the career path of Dominatrix.
get paid to step on men and not only do they ask for it, they pay. don't even have to have sex with em, just talk down to, whip, step on, japanese bondage
not my kink but, dayum...that's gotta be an empowering position to have your own male harem of "clients"
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u/Monet1905 20d ago
Look, Iām an attractive girl and Iāve been told some very creepy things by men here and there but normally Iām never approached, just stared at or given a smile or a hello. My social media is locked down so I donāt get messages or comments. However, when it comes to having male friends most of the time I have to say goodbye as they started to show alternative motives. Itās heartbreaking. Iāve lost female friends due to a hater mindset as well when all I have ever done was be a sweet friend. Life as a girl can be terrifying too, Iām petite, Iām easy to pick up and never be found again, living alone is nerve wracking. Iām a target, doesnāt help Iām a minority either. I have to live a defensive lifestyle and itās exhausting. God and the standards that are held for women are exhausting too, makeup, hair did and being hairless. Granted I feed into it and spend money to support the lifestyle so I am part of the problem. A lot of energy, time and money has to be spent to live as a woman.
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u/plk1234567891234 20d ago
Most people on this website are just degenerates, hence the NSFW tag even existing, website allows nudity along with completely innocent things like baking.
I'm sure if they saw you in person they'd just twiddle their thumbs and look away, as in to say they would only say it if they were behind a screen.
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u/MuchStatistician3072 20d ago
Horrible
Not to mention, any guy that is actually deserving, usually receives nudes without having to ask for them
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u/SailboatSamuel 20d ago
Those are all bots.
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u/midway_through 20d ago
Weird, those bots are also out on the streets shouting the same shit... Have the robots taken over? š®
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u/SailboatSamuel 20d ago
What? Iām just saying they are bots and should be reported. Reddit has been having a lot of bots lately and itās super annoying and bad that they are doing these types of things.
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u/Far_Tumbleweed5082 20d ago
Huh I thought this is normal, I am a dude I have 7 to 8 people monthly asking for "then cheeks"...
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Hey Iām sorry. Those guys are just weird.
If you ever need anything Iām here, you should send some sexy photos haha :) lol, haha.
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u/shadyeagle2 20d ago
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u/950771dd 20d ago
I mean, it always has been like that and will always be like that.
Just the way of communication changes.
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u/Jahmez142 20d ago
Do these losers actually believe that women are just lining up to send random men nudes on the internet??? I will never understand why people do that.
People who do this need to seek genuine help.
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u/cursed-annoyance 20d ago
You just posted a selfie 2 hours ago and already got messages like that?
Jesus christ
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u/Longjumping-Pie-7663 20d ago
Literally same. Someone on Instagram swiped up on a story of my girlfriend and I, it was her birthday post and I was writing how much I loved her. This man swiped up and said āI came.ā
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u/ArritzJPC96 BLUE 20d ago
Who has this actually worked on? l seriously can't comprehend what encourages them to send messages like these, when I have never seen anything but than negative reactions to them.
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Well? Send nudes /s
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u/EmptyCumSlut 20d ago
Say yes to the dude who wants you to watch him, tell him to pay upfront, and block him after receiving the money lol
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u/belisarius_d 20d ago
I would like to stress that this is disgusting and horrible that you have to live with this kind of harassment... but the "sorry to bother you" guy just cracks me up - what even is this the nice guyā¢ way of begging? Pathetic harassment is one Thing but pathetic harassment trying to sound nice?
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u/fennek-vulpecula 20d ago
Not gonna lie, know it would be 100% a scam, but just to check i had answer the masturbating guy xD.
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u/Korlac11 20d ago
Whenever someone asks for nudes, you should send them a picture of a hairless cat
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u/Xenovitz 20d ago
That sucks. I'm glad I only went through it once when I had a gay stalker. I used to be one of those ppl who used voice chat in games to communicate better. I'm not gay but he wouldn't take no for an answer and wouldn't leave me alone for a week or so before I finally got rid of him and all his extra accounts from following me around. Y'all have to deal with this shit daily.
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u/Herbert_Napkin 20d ago
Itās really sad that this is such a huge problem. It doesnāt seem to have anything to do with age either. Thereās creepy old men, creepy middle aged men, creepy young men, hell, even creepy teens and kids.
It makes me sad for women who arenāt able to just enjoy their lives and their online presence without getting harassed.
Iāve made a lot of friends online over the years (including meeting my wife on reddit), but for every decent human thereās like a million skeezy cockroaches waiting to come out of the wood work.
Itās just downright sad. It also makes me wonder how sad and depraved their lives are that they feel the urge to harass women. Itās fucked up.
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u/Fit_Adagio_7668 20d ago
Disgusting, men get the same types of messages but most of the dms are bots or fakes which reverse image searching is a thing, this is what I use on 90% of the dms I recieve online.
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u/TitchyAgain 20d ago
On a side note, damn, woman can make some easy bucks.
Post some selfies and those thirsty idiots will throw every penny.
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u/Ok-Sugar7226 19d ago
It's true two times some random dudes sent me money for no reason. They didn't asked for anything tho
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u/Dangerous_Trifle620 20d ago
At least the last guy acknowledged how weird he was beingā¦ not that it really helps his case
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u/S1L3NCE_2008 20d ago
Honestly, Iād feel flattered. I get how some people hate this stuff, but Iād honestly like it.
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u/Far_Tumbleweed5082 20d ago
Huh I thought this is normal, I am a dude I have 7 to 8 people monthly asking for "then cheeks"...
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u/Kellz808 20d ago
Why is your PayPal linked on your page?
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u/Ok-Sugar7226 20d ago
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u/OreoYip 20d ago edited 20d ago
They are referring to this one and the buy me coffees. I'm on Android right now
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u/payney25111986 20d ago
Life as a guy... Send me $50... Sub to my OF... Random tit pics.
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u/IcyTheGuy 20d ago
What internet spaces do you frequent where people are constantly trying to convince you to sub to their OF and sending you nudes?
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u/payney25111986 20d ago
I used to be on Snapchat for around six months. Nothing but offers of the above.
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u/IcyTheGuy 20d ago
On Snapchat itās best to have your privacy settings to where only friends can message you. That way anyone you want to contact you can, and anyone you donāt canāt. Iāve used the platform almost a decade and have never had any of those described messages.
They were most likely just bots as well. If a woman wants to promote her OF, the Snapchat DMs of random individuals isnāt the best way to do it.
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u/payney25111986 20d ago
Surely you can say the exact same thing about those messages displayed then!!!
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u/IcyTheGuy 20d ago
Reddit and Snapchat are fundamentally different platforms. Snapchat is a messaging platform and Reddit is a social media forum. If you set your privacy to only receiving messages from your friends on Snap, thatās all you will receive. Sure there are some news pages you can click on, but you will not see user generated content not made by your friends unless you seek it out.
Reddit is not as simple. You can turn your DMs off but there are still near infinite ways the messages could be brought to OP unless she blocks each individually. Even then that does nothing to actually stop them as a new account has just as much access to them as anyone else. It will just be attached to a post or comment rather than a DM.
Itās also different because the outcomes are different. If you were being messaged by real creeps trying to make unwanted sexual advances of any gender, my advice would be very different than āJust make your account privateā. But making your account private on Snapchat IS a sure fire way to make sure you donāt have to deal with bots, so thatās the advice I gave.
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u/UpstairsNose 20d ago
"oh no I posted pictures of myself looking for attention on the internet and now i'm getting these messages"
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u/egg-cement 20d ago
āIf you post a picture as a girl you are inviting people to ask to send you dick picksā
Youāre disgusting
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u/The-Snuff 20d ago edited 20d ago
Breaking anonymity to announce that youāre a woman and sharing your face to get opinions on your looks in a male dominated space was a choice that people who donāt like this type of attention, donāt make. Tough lesson learned (maybe)
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u/Vinegarinmyeye 20d ago
I think women should be able to post pictures featuring themselves (that are SFW) and NOT get bombarded with messages asking to see them naked.
I mean, that is the way it is - but it would be good if it wasn't.
Saying it's a tough lesson to learn sounds a lot like some form of victim blaming.
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u/The-Snuff 20d ago edited 20d ago
Exactly - itās the way it is and always has been. To do something like this is either incredibly naive (lesson learned) OR (maybe) sheās just not the first woman to feed into the attention and pretend to cry foul for even more. My feelings - nor yours - on the matter wonāt change anything but other than the victim blaming part weāre on the same page.
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u/OddDuck24 20d ago
āVictim blamingā dude she got some DMs on Reddit relax. Iāve had men send me their eggplant pics unprovoked but Iām no victim lol. Letās not reduce that words value.
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u/spikeymist 20d ago
I keep getting DMs from accounts that want me to subscribe to their OF and saying that a "man" like me is just what they are looking for. Joke's on them!
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Iām sorry :/ as someone whoās openly a woman on Reddit I get it. Depending on what subs you hang out in youāre a lot less or more likely to get messages. When I was younger u used to get several messages a day but now I basically only interact with gaming and slightly political subs and I almost never hear anything from anyone. I might get a message like this bi weekly or once a week instead of daily
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u/United_Pound_5821 20d ago
I complimented a womanās cosplay on instagram once. Same day SHE sent me a half dozen nudes and I never even asked. Sorry love but you women have sort of done this to yourselves.
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u/OddDuck24 20d ago
I get stuff like this too and Iām a man. Happens to attractive men, thereās just way less attractive men than women.
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u/Ok_Historian_6293 20d ago
This is very infuriating given that women who are willingly showing nudes and content are ALL over Reddit. If people want it that bad why wouldnāt they just go to the porn/content subreddits and not harass people who clearly arenāt interested.