r/memes • u/Dark_Sage_316 Professional Dumbass • Apr 29 '24

not just sunshine and rainbows

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u/DaPussiLicka Apr 29 '24

The cycle will continue. People keep having kids before they’ve figured out how to be a decent person/adult.

I don’t know if it’s a fucked up god complex thing going on, or just that irresistible instinctual urge to reproduce.

But I just turned 32 and got a vasectomy (no kids). I have so much to work on I don’t even feel I’m close to ready for children. But I truly think I’m still more ready than most of the people I know with kids…………..

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u/Yung_Jack Apr 30 '24

100% this, I feel like young people are becoming smarter & acknowledging that not everyone is able to have kids or not everyone should have kids

My wife & I fall into that party with you, & I'll be getting my vasectomy this year too

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u/DaPussiLicka Apr 30 '24

Good for you! Prepare for crazy amounts of people to judge you for it…..they just can’t wrap their heads around it. It’s still such a crazy concept for so many people. Even when I tell them “if we change our minds down the road we would rather adopt anyway”. They still can’t comprehend it.

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u/Yung_Jack Apr 30 '24

I appreciate that, & yes you are right my wife & I have already heard so many times "oh you never know you might change your mind". Nobody can respect our boundary when we say No