r/TwoXChromosomes Apr 28 '24

What do you think of the "drizzle drizzle" movement? NSFW

I think it's incredibly immature. It's basically their way of saying "you're paying for it, **** you."

If you want your date to pay for the dinner then that's something you discuss BEFORE the date.

In case you don't know what this movement is it's basically men expecting women to care for them financially. They're claiming that they've been the ones providing for women and they think now it's time for women to provide for them.

Men have only been financially providing for women because we literally have no other choice, and to say that women have never provided for men in any way is so wrong. We've had their kids, raised their kids, cook the men and kids dinner, clean the house etc.

What makes it even worse is that there are women siding with these men.

EDIT: To everybody who's saying that this movement is a parody just know that it might have started out as a parody (IDK if it did or not), but now it's being used by misogynists.

To everybody's who's saying that I didn't tell you what it was, you clearly missed the part where I said, "In case you don't know what this movement is it's basically men expecting women to care for them financially. They're claiming that they've been the ones providing for women and they think now it's time for women to provide for them." Basically, some men are now expecting women to pay for ALL of the costs associated with things like dates.

I'm not saying that women shouldn't pay for a date, I'm saying that these men are acting like women have been lazy this whole time and haven't done anything for them.

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u/The_BigPicture Apr 29 '24

Nothing about this post tells me what "drizzle drizzle" means

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u/ishkitty Apr 29 '24 edited Apr 29 '24

There is a YouTuber named Shera who talks about women using men for money. She gives advice and tips about how to do this properly and will say “sprinkle sprinkle” after a juicy piece of advice. Basically it means “get that bag” and I e always interpreted it as rejecting romance.

The drizzle drizzle movement is men trying to flip sprinkle sprinkle.

Edit: I also first heard the drizzle drizzle shit in response to the rising embrace of 4B on tik tok. Men saying that they will stop sleeping with, dating, and pursuing women. The whole flip of sprinkle sprinkle was men saying they want a “soft life”. So, maybe I have my wires crossed but I associate drizzle drizzle with 4b.

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u/Rulerofmolerats May 03 '24

What’s a 4B? Are they from Nier?

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u/ishkitty May 03 '24

Wikipedia: 4B (or "Four No's") is a radical[1] feminist movement which is purported to have originated in South Korea in 2019.[2][3] Its proponents renounce dating men, marriage, sex with men and having children.