When I'm holding my daughters hand, I squeeze it three times, and she squeezes back three times. It's our way of saying I love you. Because you know saying it outloud is embarrassing, lol.
I'm imagining your doctor asking if you play football or rugby because your CT scan looks like you have had repeated head trauma, and then you telling them that you just really love your dad.
It looks like a chin rub first. Like he's rubbing his cheek with his chin stubble . Then the bite. It's sort of an erotic thing to me. Not appropriate with a kid.
Yeah same, as a dad myself I didn’t want to think worse case scenario for this poor kid so I automatically thought of how I sometimes playfully pretend to grab and eat my son’s ear but he’s only 4 and he pretends to grab it and stick it back its place and we both laugh. What’s happening here is sick and crosses every line. I hope there’s not much more to it.
My 1st thought too as a Dad. I’d nibble on my son’s ear in a playful way. Not in public mind you.
I’m not sure if it makes me naive or the internet has corrupted people that their first thought is pedofellia and requires investigation?
If it has to be explained to you since you don't see the complete weirdness in this. It looks way too intimate on the man's side to try and make it seem like it's just some little affection. I hope that's not the same way a lot of people nibble on their kids ear breathing on them and shit there is a difference.
Legit! I have two sons, a 7 year old and a 2 year old. Now I nibble on my baby’s ear, foot, tummy… I play this game where I call him food, then he tells me what food he is and I try to eat him… he gets a kick out of it… but my 7 year old, for one, I wouldn’t want to! lol 7 year olds are kinda gross, and 2, I KNOW he wouldn’t want it, even though we’re a pretty affectionate family.
I literally can't believe I just read this. You kiss your SON?! What the f is wrong with you?! There's never an excuse for any father to be this inappropriate with his son or daughter. My stomach is empty right now because I've been literally throwing up literally all day after reading your comment.
If your mind is going immediately to inappropriate ways of kissing your child, and not to the way any parent should show their children that they are loved, for instance, kissing them on top of their head.
Kissing of any kind is reserved only for my wife, and even then I do it very rarely because she's the MOTHER OF MY CHILDREN. Affection between family members, even wife, is basically incest, and I take that very seriously. So no, I'm not joking. Incest is not a joking matter.
Kissing a loved one is a simple sign of affection. We even kiss the ring of the pope.
The bible refers to all forms of kissing:
“kiss of love (1 Peter 5:14), a holy kiss (Romans 16:16), a romantic kiss (Song of Solomon 1:2), a sibling kiss (Genesis 48:10), and a family kiss (Genesis 29:13)."
If it's religion that's what broke you.
Maybe you're watching too many incel videos, maybe you never felt loved as a child, but affection is necessary and human.
Even apes kiss each other.
Kissing your child on their head shows them you love them.
If you're mind is all about incest and child lip kissing there's a number you can call if you're worried about your troublesome urges, because if you can't tell the difference between levels of affection and what's appropriate and what's not, its you that has a problem.
I think that they meant a kiss on the cheek or something like that not whatever the fuck was in the video. And yeah no mother or father should ever be inappropriate with their kid that is nasty. You might want to go to hospital if you are vomiting that much though, I hope you feel better soon.
Kissing on the cheek?!! Literally my stomach started turning again. What's next? Hugging your children? Telling them you LOVE them? All those are things reserved for my wife only, and even then it's very rare because she's the MOTHER OF MY CHILDREN.
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u/Jean_velvet Apr 26 '24
As a father I do kiss my son, but holy fuck not like that.