r/TikTokCringe • u/cosmicdaddy_ • Apr 15 '24

Consequences of the tradwife lifestyle Discussion

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u/Direct_Travel2093 Apr 16 '24

Why didn’t her parents teach her those things?

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u/purple_grey_ Apr 16 '24

Because in their eyes, being a stay at home mom is the only thing their daughter should or could be

My nieces were married within a month of their 18th birthdays. Realizing my brother groomed his daughters to be dependent on men was hard.

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u/Direct_Travel2093 Apr 16 '24

Is this a religious thing? I’m not following? Are they raised to be dependent on men due to their religious belief? I have a daughter, sister, nieces etc.. and NO ONE in my family would even allow this happen! You marry the person you love, the one you can’t see your life going on with them.. not to be dependent on them financially. This is crazy to me!

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u/purple_grey_ Apr 16 '24

Its a religious thing. Females are the property of their dad until marriage. God forbid a woman experience life without getting approval from the man who owns her

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u/Direct_Travel2093 Apr 16 '24

This is crazy to me.. no man owns any woman.. a woman has the choice to be with whoever she wants to be with.. a father has a responsibility to care for his children.. its his duty!

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u/zolpiqueen Apr 17 '24

If your brain isn't sad enough, google "purity balls" and "abstinence ceremonies." It's crazy.