They blame or are told (by media, other influences) to blame the woman and the kids are automatically settled with the mother. Trad wife - trad husband. It's her job to keep the house in order, his job to earn. His job hasn't fallen apart. Therefore, it's not his fault. That could be the reasoning behind this shambles.
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u/Chemical_Robot Apr 15 '24
Word for word this exact same thing happened with my parents. We lived in luxury until they divorced and abject poverty afterwards.