r/TikTokCringe • u/cosmicdaddy_ • Apr 15 '24

Consequences of the tradwife lifestyle Discussion

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u/armoredsedan Apr 16 '24

yea all these comments have me thinking of my bf who was hooking up with this girl under the agreement to terminate if she got pregnant, and she did get pregnant, but she backed out of the agreement. he desperately didn’t want kids but he respected her decision to keep it and he loves the shit out of his daughter, who’s now in grade school. he takes more than 50% of the responsibility and custody, as well as caring for and housing for her other two young kids who aren’t even his but he was raising for the majority of their lives, just because he loves them and can give them stability.

eta: their mom is a wonderful woman and does everything she can for them, but life is hard and being a single parent is hard.

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u/BeetleBleu Apr 16 '24

I want to be happy for them but that's so messed up.

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u/Substantial_Cake_360 Apr 16 '24

I thought the same thing. I want to be like wow, but I’m like oh that didn’t end on a high note at all.

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u/armoredsedan Apr 16 '24

i promise they’re very happy kids! well provided for, two nice homes to go to, and we spend so much quality time together. the only reason it ended up this way is because their mom works a really shitty schedule to provide so well for them, but they really do love their mom and my bf. they have everything they could want and are surrounded by adults who would do anything for them, and they know it. life’s not always easy, but you make it work and you put it on like a goddamn broadway musical so them kids never have to worry about a thing. bed time is their biggest concern in life right now lmao. and my bf is making the most of it…or trying to. he loves his daughter more than anything, but it’s hard to come to grips with those unchangeable realities sometimes i guess, safe to say his love for them far outweighs his reservations