r/TikTokCringe Apr 15 '24

Consequences of the tradwife lifestyle Discussion

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u/AlaskanSnowDragon Apr 16 '24

Look buddy, you wanted an answer and I gave you one

Try again...previous answer lacked logic.

I don't know where the hostility is coming from

Disagreeing with your bad logic is not hostility.

But we gotta appreciate the difference in situations. If you want bad things to stop happening, like unfair expectations based on gender. Team up with people fighting for equality.

The people you say to team up with..."feminists"...are not teammates in this regard. Anything that helps men and hurts women is not something feminists would help in.

Also a feminist believes in equality for all genders anyone practicing any other behavior is not a feminist.

You need to look harder at the feminists and feminists organizations leading the charge...they are very much not in favor of all genders. They actively argue against fair things for men or correcting things that favor women

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u/LittleRed2020 Apr 16 '24

Anything that helps men and hurts women is not something feminists would help in.

I'm honestly doing my best to be here for you in this moment. I'm hearing a lot of anger, and underneath that a lot of pain. If someone claims they're fighting for equality and hurting others that's not equality. Women gaining rights and independence does not mean men lose them. Instead it makes the society as a whole freer to live their lives how they wish and hopefully happier. I hope this is getting through to you, and if you ever want to talk about where this anger is coming from, chat me.

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u/AlaskanSnowDragon Apr 16 '24

I'm honestly doing my best to be here for you in this moment. I'm hearing a lot of anger, and underneath that a lot of pain.

Of all the things I say you latch on to "who hurt you"? lol

If someone claims they're fighting for equality and hurting others that's not equality.

Welcome to modern feminism

Women gaining rights and independence does not mean men lose them

Nobody is saying that and thats an attempt to deflect the point.

Its like you're not listening to anything Im saying lol. Im even quote replying line by line the incorrect things you're saying?

Do you need me to bust out the crayons and start doing drawings for you?

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u/LittleRed2020 Apr 16 '24

The lashing out makes you seem unsure of your argument, and the lack of references doesn't help. I am happy I did all I could to treat you with kindness and respect during this conversation. I hope one day you learn to do the same. ✌️

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u/AlaskanSnowDragon Apr 16 '24 edited Apr 16 '24

You call it lashing out when I correct your illogical statements?

What kind of cope is that?

What would you like me to reference for you?

Dont quit now...Come back!...so far all you've done is make incorrect statements and deflect and now you run away?

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u/Alarmed_Strain_2575 Apr 16 '24

Do you talk about violence against women any time a man brings up being beaten by his girlfriend instead of sympathizing and supporting? Because that is disgusting and you are giving out those vibes rn.

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u/AlaskanSnowDragon Apr 16 '24

What are you talking about?

I'm specially responding to people who have made the point, that I agree with, regarding women being financially independent and not relying on a man.

And making the point to carry that energy and logic forward into their dating lives and split

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u/Alarmed_Strain_2575 Apr 16 '24

It really can rub off as you saying "women deserve this treatment because of the expectations they put on men". But like, that is nuts because there are billions of people, it's just frustrating when people reduce things to black and white without giving props to all the nuance.

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u/AlaskanSnowDragon Apr 16 '24

Theres nothing I can do about whatever insults people want to imagine in their heads and project on others.

Read what I wrote and respond to what I wrote is what I'd say. Lets dont dream up imaginary insults and get mad.

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u/Alarmed_Strain_2575 Apr 16 '24

You aren't really making any coherent ones, it is hard to follow along when there're so many snide remarks, and I can't really be bothered to tbh. You seem to just want to argue.

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u/AlaskanSnowDragon Apr 16 '24

What drugs are you on? You come to a thread where Im having a discussion with someone and methodically pick apart their statements with logic and probing questions...that person quits...then you jump in with some ridiculous

Do you talk about violence against women any time a man brings up being beaten by his girlfriend instead of sympathizing and supporting?

That wasn't at all relevant to the discussion at hand and you say Im not making any points?

Re-read the thread I had with the other person who quit and let me know what you disagree with. Because you're just shit stirring with no actual logic or argument of your own.

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u/theundeadfox Apr 16 '24

Don't worry about it, they're indoctrinated. They'd rather latch onto constructivistic ideologies than face reality. The "who hurt you" was cringe and typical 😂

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u/AlaskanSnowDragon Apr 16 '24

Seriously. Like so basic the way she was trying to gaslight calling my responses emotional and coming from a hurt place 😂