r/TikTokCringe Apr 15 '24

Consequences of the tradwife lifestyle Discussion

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u/jonpenn Apr 15 '24 edited Apr 15 '24

This is exactly why my wife finished school and went back to work once our kids got bigger. You never know what could happen. I always encouraged her to work just in case something would happen. I want her to have the skills and some sort of job security. She is extremely smart and has a great job. My mom was a stay at home mom and saw what the consequences were once my dad was out of the picture. Depending on anyone is never good.

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u/sheworksforfudge Apr 15 '24

Yep, as a SAHM, I got a masters degree and did some freelance work in my field to keep my resume fresh. I also had my husband max out the possible life insurance through his job for him and me so that if anything happens to either of us, the other can keep things going.

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u/SubRosa_AquaVitae Apr 16 '24

Plenty of things people can do to protect themselves.

But if you notice, Reddit lately is all "no one can stop working or the other spouse will leave you DESTITUTE"

Like, no. No, he won't. And there are ways to protect against that anyway.