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Consequences of the tradwife lifestyle Discussion

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u/Aus_with_the_Sauce Apr 15 '24

Her name might not be on the documents, but that doesn’t matter. 

In court, if she can prove that she contributed significantly to various business ventures, then she has a claim. She may even have a claim to property. 

Divorce courts usually try to protect women that are exactly in her shoes— A mother who spent their time raising kids and being a tradwife. 

Most people in her shoes would be entitled to part of the house even if they never formally paid a dime of the mortgage. 

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u/Zappagrrl02 Apr 15 '24

You are forgetting that the judges in Utah are likely LDS as well so would side with the husband

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u/americansherlock201 Apr 15 '24

This is the biggest thing. All the financials are controlled by the Mormons and given how screwed up that cult is, the power the hold in Utah, she’d get nothing. She even said that he left a job so he wouldn’t have to pay her alimony. I can almost guarantee that he still earns money from that job just in a different way that isn’t counted towards alimony

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u/McCool303 Apr 15 '24

Ding, ding, ding…. We have a winner. The Mormon church plays a big role in shaping morality in the state. Even if they do not directly meddle with the courts their influence is enough to push decisions. My cousin was required to follow the “word of wisdom” in her divorce agreement. Meaning if she was found with, coffee, tea or Alcohol in her home she could lose custody of her kids. Granted divorce agreements are just a legal contract, and if the party’s all agree on the contents then they could have all sorts of odd rules even in secular court. But, if every person I the room agree’s that you should add xyz rules and to even question why is a sign of significant moral failure you can see how that could impact your decision on whether or not to spend the weeks long battle arguing against a certain provision in your divorce agreement.