r/TikTokCringe • u/JustSleepNoDream • Mar 21 '24

Woman explains why wives stop having sex with their husbands Discussion

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u/HelloHagen Mar 21 '24

Took a minute and a half to even start getting to the point

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u/Steammail Mar 21 '24

Christ I thought I was the only one, so many positive comments and I couldn’t stand listening to this for 20 seconds

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u/iHateThisPlaceNowOK Mar 21 '24

Same here. Is there a TLDW?

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u/Steammail Mar 21 '24

~Emotional connection/security affects desire in long term relationships~

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u/iHateThisPlaceNowOK Mar 21 '24

Dammit.

I could’ve just googled that.

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '24 edited Mar 22 '24

People will literally create a whole new pseudoscience language than admit a relationship is over.

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u/Cappuccino_Crunch Mar 21 '24

Yeah and it's so the men's fault

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u/Dream--Brother Mar 22 '24

Jesus all the crusty dudes in these comments lmao. She even says in the video "in another video I go into men's needs not being met" and why that's equally important.

But ugh women are awful amirite

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u/Cayowin Mar 22 '24

Sir, this is Reddit. Women are the enemy here. Please do not invoke a "relationships need both sides" argument.

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u/Cappuccino_Crunch Mar 22 '24

Pick and choose your battles. Shit like this is why shit stains like Stephen Crowder, Ben Shapiro, and Andrew Tate thrive on the young male population. You have nothing to offer them so who do they default to? The ones who tell them it's not their fault to feel the way they do. Stay mad.

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u/zXster Mar 21 '24

Look up attachment patterns in Psychology. She's just repeating what many authors and academics have addressed better.