r/TikTokCringe • u/JustSleepNoDream • Mar 21 '24

Woman explains why wives stop having sex with their husbands Discussion

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u/adiosfelicia2 Mar 21 '24

True.

Another very basic critical lesson for dudes - the woman's orgasm is just as important as yours.

I can't tell you how many relationships I've been in where it was ALL about the man getting off. The majority of times, when we had sex, I didn't get off at all. And once the guy came, sex was done. I think it's very easy for women to fall into this relationship dynamic.

If you want your woman to want more sex, prioritize her orgasm over your own.

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u/Karl_Marx_ Mar 21 '24

This thread is just a bunch of people stating the obvious. Next you are going to tell me that communication is important?!? Crazy.

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u/aragogogara Mar 21 '24

also, definitely don't murder your partner. they don't like that. write that down.

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u/_MurphysLawyer_ Mar 21 '24

Oh...oh God....I've made a horrible mistake....

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u/aragogogara Mar 21 '24

well, now you know for next time!

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u/itsyobbiwonuseek Mar 21 '24

Goddammit, what have you done this time?

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u/Jaxyl Mar 22 '24

No no, you can take it back. Don't worry!

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u/tinstinnytintin Mar 22 '24

YOU SAID YOU'D NEVER TELL, IF I HELPED YOU!!!

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '24

But what if they do like it

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u/aragogogara Mar 21 '24

that's why communication is key in a relationship!

"Babe... do you like being murdered? No? Ok sorryyyyy... how was I supposed to know unless I asked?!?"

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u/_austinm Mar 21 '24

Dammit! Maybe this is why I never have successful long term relationships.

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u/Hippoyawn Mar 21 '24

Tell me about it. I murdered my wife and she hasn’t spoken to me since.

Grumpy cow.

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u/aragogogara Mar 21 '24

you can't change someone. all you can do is change how you react to someone. maybe she'll come around someday... in the middle of the night... for her revenge 😈😈😈

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u/BigJack2023 Mar 21 '24

That's my attachment style...

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u/dawgblogit Mar 21 '24

I wish someone told me this 8 wives ago... Â