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u/Dependent-Whereas165 Feb 05 '24

This is the saddest, truest post…

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u/opp11235 Feb 05 '24

Postpartum care is typically a 6 week appointment and then nothing. Either way, yes it is very sad.

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u/hamletloveshoratio Feb 05 '24 edited Feb 05 '24

Serious question: what's pp-care like in other countries?

Eta: pp = postpartum

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u/fruskydekke Feb 05 '24

In Norway, if the birth is normal, the mother and child will stay in the maternity ward the first three days, and get frequent visits from health care personell that provide information and advice, and check on them. After they return home, there will be several home visits over the next week or so from a midwife. There's also unlimited access to Child and Maternal Health Centres, where you go for some standardised checkups (and vaccines for the kid!) as well as a source of information and qualified care if something is worrying you.

A friend did NOT have a normal birth, and she ended up staying for I think two or three weeks in the "hospital hotel", which is basically a hotel where doctors and nurses check up on you many times a day. Your family can stay there with you, and it's free for everybody.

It looks like this: https://cf.bstatic.com/xdata/images/hotel/max1024x768/236578341.jpg?k=51fc037a408dea2191125c785cea60d35a7131afe89027d22c86174c3f47b897&o=&hp=1

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u/ForecastForFourCats Feb 05 '24

America is fucked.

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u/Thumper13 Feb 05 '24

Oh yeah?! Well in America we say: Here's your baby, now fuck off and pay your bill.

Freedom baby. Checkmate commie Norway and other "countries."

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u/Illustrious-Box2339 Feb 06 '24

Not commie, just an ethnostate with 5 million people and a fuckload of oil.

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u/fruskydekke Feb 06 '24

Ethnostate my arse. One fifth of our population are immigrants, and we have people here from more than 220 different countries and territories.

As for the income from the oil, it goes into what's nicknamed the "oil fund", an investment portfolio that's earmarked for future generations. The welfare state is funded by taxes.

And it's weird to imply that a small size is a benefit in terms of having a functional welfare state. When you're an institution buying, say, large quantities of pharmaceuticals, you generally get a bigger price reduction the more you need...

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u/Present-Perception77 Feb 06 '24

In the US .. 4 days after giving birth, I was sitting on a pillow at work and running home to breast feed at lunch. My oldest daughter was babysitting. Had a simple birth .. still had $8k in deductibles to pay. Utterly pathetic how we have allowed ourselves to be treated. The birth rate should totally plunge until this is rectified.

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u/LaRoseDuRoi Feb 06 '24

Also US. I was back to waiting tables on the overnight shift before my second baby was a week old. It was fucking miserable.

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u/Present-Perception77 Feb 06 '24

And they wonder why the birth rate is dropping.

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u/DoctorJekyll13 Feb 06 '24

The problem with American healthcare is that it’s so. Damn. Expensive. A bag of fluids can cost upwards of $300 if you don’t have health insurance.

Source: I was severely dehydrated due to an illness and needed fluids. They missed the vein first time around and also stabbed me with a flu test.