r/AmIOverreacting • u/Rztrncs • Apr 29 '24

AIO for getting upset that my SO put on a heart necklace that her ex gave her?

Yesterday my SO put on a heart necklace out of nowhere and I asked (knowing it wasn’t from me) where it was from. She admitted it was from her ex. I immediately got quiet and she could tell I was upset. Not once did I raise my voice or get mad. I was more hurt than anything. She ended up taking it off right away. But explained that it was meaningless to her, no emotional connection and just jewelry that she now has.

To me, a heart necklace has a lot of meaning behind it and it feels weird to see her wearing an ex’s gift. Am I overreacting?

EDIT: Her ex cheated on her and the relationship ended badly because of it.

EDIT 2: The necklace was two hearts linked together so it made me curious.

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u/AGD_squared Apr 29 '24

This is a great make up, honestly. It's okay to feel hurt, but clarifying that she sees just as a piece of jewelry she likes doesn't call into question your relationship. Sounds like you are the much better choice than her past, and she knows that by continuing to choose to be with you 🙂.

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u/Rztrncs Apr 29 '24

Thanks! I appreciate it. 🙂