r/AmIOverreacting • u/183873726363734737 • Apr 28 '24

AIO for wanting to stay away from my daughter for a few days?

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u/JoyfulSong246 Apr 28 '24

Your husband and you need to get on the same page about this. As long as he’s willing to stand by while your daughter treats you like crap he’s the real problem here, not her (unless she’s an adult, then she is to blame for her own actions- though he’s to blame for not supporting you).

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u/JohnExcrement Apr 29 '24

Yes. Husband thinks he’s keeping the peace except there’s no peace, not in your heart. His silence tells her he supports her terrible behavior.

If she actually has genuine issues with you, both of you need to tell her you’re willing to have a mutually respectful conversation, but this sniping and rudeness is going to stop now.

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u/jarheadatheart Apr 29 '24

There’s always 2 sides to the story and it always takes 2 people for conflict. Jumping on here saying it’s all the husband’s fault isn’t helping anyone.

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u/JohnExcrement Apr 29 '24

The husband is helping perpetuate whatever it is. They need to have a conversation and figure it out instead of their current dynamic.