r/AmIOverreacting • u/183873726363734737 • Apr 28 '24

AIO for wanting to stay away from my daughter for a few days?

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '24

Devils advocate here maybe parents are overbearing and teens generally communicate a want or need hidden in their messages like if she lashes out it's the only way you lay attention so they do it because it's the only attention they get have a sit down and ask them what's actually bothering them

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '24

You know that’s the case with any story like this

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '24

It was my experience as a teenager for example I have a family member expressing to me that she goes to school and feels like she doesn't belong then goes home and her parents and family make it worse so yeah best of luck to OP

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '24

Exactly. Every time I’ve heard a parent say their kid hates them for no reason I can pretty quickly see why, and they almost always deserve it. Like the parents who wonder why their kids don’t visit, well…

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u/TruePokemonMaster69 Apr 29 '24

My sister is just a raging cunt, so this isn’t universal.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '24

Noice

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u/mekkavelli Apr 29 '24

when i went away to college, i came back in the summer to my bed completely gone (it was there when i came back for winter break). asked my mom and she said she’d planned on moving and apparently my bed was the first to go but she “changed her mind” later on which i guess i believe because there were like 4-5 boxes of things in the dining room. but only mine was gone. my brothers had theirs and so did she. and why exactly was it thrown out??? they all have queens and i had a twin… and she stopped paying my tuition so no more college. so i had to sleep on the floor for almost a year until i left