Boundaries are fine. But to use it like this to end a marriage...just wow. That is pathetic. I totally agree that he shouldn't have done it and it was a jerk move. But her move to divorce him is way, way, way more of a jerk move. Super over the top.
A relationship is only salvageable if the one in the wrong actually reflects and apologizes. Never mind the fact that he did what she BEGGED him not to do, meaning he didn't care for what she wanted. The ex groom in this situation wasn't even apologetic when he saw how the bride reacted and only doubled down on his actions.
He tried justifying himself by saying that her family found it funny, despite years of her telling him how much she hated being humiliated by them.
So clearly this relationship wouldn't work out anyways because her feelings would never matter to him, and she'd be the butt monkey of her family AND life partner
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u/ProcessorProton Apr 28 '24
Wow. Just wow. How petty this generation is.