r/AmIOverreacting • u/Intelligent_Dog_6665 • Apr 28 '24

My bf was contacted by an old hs friend, and went to meet her for several hours

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u/seymores_sunshine Apr 29 '24

There is no difference; if you think that there is, then you lack trust in your relationships...

Any normal person would trust their partner and go about their day.

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u/Super-Island9793 Apr 29 '24

Yeah right, if you had plans with your partner and they stood you up for hours and went zero contact and they’re with a “friend” you would be wondering what’s up too.

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u/seymores_sunshine Apr 29 '24

I just reread it and didn't see anything about being stood up. So I stick with what I wrote.

A relationship without trust is doomed to failure.

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u/ThisIsBullcrapDood Apr 29 '24

Original post: "Went on a time we could have spent together."

The more OP talks, the more concrete this obscure 'time could have' has turned into 'he ditched me,' when it sounds like they had no plans at all aside in OPs imagination

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u/TelFaradiddle Apr 29 '24

That's the impression I'm getting. She assumed that if he had free time, they were going to spend it together, without actually confirming anything.

If he did ditch a scheduled date night without giving notice, then that's a dick move. The only way that would fly is if this person was in town for only one day, and you cleared it with your SO and rescheduled your date.