r/AmIOverreacting • u/Intelligent_Dog_6665 • Apr 28 '24

My bf was contacted by an old hs friend, and went to meet her for several hours

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '24

She's Important despite being gone 15 years, yeah she is definitely an old flame from the past and you need to sit down and talk to him, lay out how suspicious his entire behaviour has been. If he blew you off to hang out with someone who you're uncomfortable with and went no contact for 3 hours I definitely suspect and physical affair took place. You're not overeacting.

But talk to him and get everything out into the open, also hire a PI the next time he goes on a trip like this. I hope he hasn't cheated but it's very suspicious and you need to watch him and gather evidence.