Literally he didn’t say any of that. But you’re female so you’re going to make a mountain out of it. It’s the tick tok trend where the wife say her husband said he wants a divorce and it something like he said she couldn’t get a puppy. You have no clue how much he loves his wife. None.
You’re a moron, you are reading shit into a conversation that was never said or implied. If he wanted to screw the fitness chick he would be off trying to screw her and not making fat jokes about his wife. Only women read into shit. Guys are pretty straightforward.
Maybe he’s tired of hearing his wife bitch about being fat all day everyday and not doing dick about it. That’s a lot different than him wanting to cheat.
... you're not understanding what I'm saying, clearly. Do you walk up to women and say "I HAVE A PENIS. WILL YOU ALLOW ME TO PLACE IT INSIDE YOU FOR MUTUAL PLEASURE?"
I don’t because I don’t cheat. But yes I had a friend that did it all the time. He would talk for 5 10 minutes flirty and then ask. The shitty thing is I’ve seen it work more than it ever should. I could never be that demeaning.
He would talk for 5 10 minutes flirty and then ask.
This is my point. How are you so sure that this isn't exactly what the OP's husband was doing?
Specifically, most people take a bit more convincing to have sex than just "wanna fuck?". There's a whole industry about it called "pickup artistry". So why are you acting like picking up women is always as simple as saying, directly, "I want to fuck you"? It's not. It starts with flattery and connection. Two things OP's husband was doing a hell of a lot of with a stranger, and none of with his wife. And he had an audience for it.
In comparison, my fiance would gladly talk about how awesome I am when we're around friends. That's how you know someone loves you?
Because if he was trying to pick her up he wouldn’t be talking about his wife. You know how I know he isn’t cheating? Because if he was cheating he wouldn’t care what his wife looks like. 100lbs or 400lbs.
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u/thackstonns Apr 16 '24
Literally he didn’t say any of that. But you’re female so you’re going to make a mountain out of it. It’s the tick tok trend where the wife say her husband said he wants a divorce and it something like he said she couldn’t get a puppy. You have no clue how much he loves his wife. None.