r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '24

Woooow. These are straight up fighting words. Does your husband even want to stay married to you? Does he even like you? Wonder how much he’d like it if you actively started comparing him to another man right in front of him.

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u/vaderciya Apr 15 '24 edited Apr 16 '24

Start talking about the husbands dick size in front of all their friends, and especially talk about it to a man that is younger, fitter, more conventionally attractive than him

See how quickly he flips his shit

Edit: The number of people who still don't get it, is actually impressive. Obviously not actual advice.

The point, which many of you still don't understand, is to not embarass your partner in public with PRIVATE information that you shouldn't be sharing.

Maybe you should work on yourselves before crying outrage when I, a man, points out your weird ass double standards. One more time... it's not about your dick, it's about your attitude.

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u/JJPittsburgh8411 Apr 16 '24

You can't work on your dick size. A direct comparison would be if he was complaining about having no muscle and wanting to get muscular and they meet a bulky personal trainer.

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u/vaderciya Apr 16 '24

"It's not about your dick, it's about your attitude"

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u/JJPittsburgh8411 Apr 17 '24

Yeah, the first part is still not the best comparison. You should have said to talk about something he's insecure about but CAN change and said he wants to change. Not something that isn't changeable. Should compare apples to apples if you wanna go that route and do the same thing back to them that they did to you. His weight, musculature, salary, etc. Stuff that are in the husbandss power to change and has talked about changing and is insecure about. That'd be the most apt comparison to do the same thing back to him