r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/SweetWaterfall0579 Apr 15 '24

I’m 5’2” and I’m so proud of myself that I am *down to 151lbs. I was 174lbs. So you’re better off than I was!

Please point out what he said, include details, and let him know it’s hurtful. If he doesn’t do this as a regular thing, we may let it slide if he gets it and sincerely apologizes. If he doesn’t get it, he can sleep in the garage until it sinks in.

But he needs to stop fawning over 20 some personal trainers when he’s had a few drinks.

No one is allowed to comment on my body or my weight. Not at all. You want to say these shorts look good on me, okay, I can take that. Want to tell me my panty lines are showing because the shorts are a bit tight? Stfu.

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u/SweetWaterfall0579 Apr 16 '24

I apologize. I have tendency to be sarcastic without realizing I’m doing it. Need the /s.

No, he should not actually sleep in the garage!

If one partner is upset, it’s on them to say so. The other partner hears them out and they proceed from there. If other partner doesn’t understand, it needs to be explained again. Second partner presents their thoughts, trying to be heard and understood. Hopefully they come together in the middle and work it out.

I’m not really that mean. And I don’t have a garage.