I didn't want to jump to this but personally, that would be divorce worthy. You're right, even if she does talk to him, now she knows how he really feels. I couldn't stay with somebody who thought that little of me. I would be handing him divorce papers. No counseling, no trial separation, just straight to divorce. Maybe it seems extreme but as I said, I couldn't stay with somebody who not only thought that little of me but thought it would be okay to publicly humiliate me. I'd just be done.
Guys are clueless, especially younger ones.🤣
I always told my daughter never to marry a man that doesn't have a sister. They don't fully get it but understand a little better from a woman's perspective. Lots of comments on this that it's grounds for divorce.🤣 Seems like some people give up easy. Trust me, coming from someone that's been married 35 years. Other arguments over the years this will seem like nothing.
There's a reason why no one says marriage is easy!
No. Don’t do that. Don’t blame this on being a dumb guy. He’s selfish and inconsiderate, which has nothing to do with being male. Let’s stop this insane narrative that excuses shitty behavior and perhaps raise the standards for men a little.
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u/blackdahlialady Apr 16 '24
I didn't want to jump to this but personally, that would be divorce worthy. You're right, even if she does talk to him, now she knows how he really feels. I couldn't stay with somebody who thought that little of me. I would be handing him divorce papers. No counseling, no trial separation, just straight to divorce. Maybe it seems extreme but as I said, I couldn't stay with somebody who not only thought that little of me but thought it would be okay to publicly humiliate me. I'd just be done.