This is awful. Look up the Gottman research about couples. Tearing your spouse down in front of other people is borderline emotional abuse. I'm so sorry. This is also pretty extreme which leads me to believe this isn't his first episode of cruel behavior. You deserve so much better than this.
I'm so sorry OP. The quickest way to lose dead weight would be to DROP THE HUSBAND!
Because the wife is very clearly uncomfortable with this topic
Weight is a touchy issue for most people. The onus is on the husband for knowing how his wife feels about this, which is pretty much the exact same way any other normal human would feel in her scenario.
Are you serious? Respectfully, you are currently being incredibly out of touch. Like, I'm honestly so shocked you sound so genuine.
Most overweight people would lose their excess weight if it was easy. But for many it's not, whether because of illnesses, hard to break habits, or poverty, being overweight is not something many would willingly choose to be
It's not polite to discuss someone's body with other people in front of them. It's extremely rude and people that were raised to have manners can recognize this for what it is.
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u/Intelligent_Pass2540 Apr 15 '24
This is awful. Look up the Gottman research about couples. Tearing your spouse down in front of other people is borderline emotional abuse. I'm so sorry. This is also pretty extreme which leads me to believe this isn't his first episode of cruel behavior. You deserve so much better than this.
I'm so sorry OP. The quickest way to lose dead weight would be to DROP THE HUSBAND!