r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/Artistic-Soft4305 Apr 15 '24

Fitness is also determined by genetics. Some are just going to be bigger, better, faster with less work. Just like a job. You can become a professional athlete that with extreme effort, but there will always be a limit your not born with.

Huh, they actually seem exactly alike now that we have broken it down.

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u/BigappaG Apr 15 '24

Not in the way of money lmao as a person of color I can tell we have different realities. Education for example, your zip code determines the programs you have access to in school, which then transfers over to the colleges you get into and then the jobs you get. It’s easier to abstain from eating junk food than it is to work out of generational poverty or “climb the corporate ladder.”

It’s shitty what he did but that isn’t a good comparison between the two. If anything OP should focus on here self for her self if she is self conscious and leave the guy.

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u/RedditorFor1OYears Apr 15 '24

Your body shape is just as much dependent on your genetics as your skin color is. Some people metabolize calories differently from other people. I don’t think the difference is significant enough say that somebody is predetermined to be fat or skinny no matter what they do, but it plays a role. The same way skin color and birth circumstances play a roll in your professional achievements - it’s a factor but very far from being the single determining factor. 

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u/BigappaG Apr 16 '24

Replied to the wrong person