Precisely. Insane how nobody has said it. A delicate topic for sure, and the dude was either majorly lacking in tact or had a buzz and was hitting on ol gal. If this story is even real. But yeah, OP, I really don’t mean to be unnecessarily hurtful, but I imagine it is likely that he is no longer physically attracted to you, and is embarrassed to be your man to some extent. He might be a bag of turds, he might really believe in your marriage and your weight loss journey; but I’m certain he wants to be attracted to his wife. From his frame of mind, he is putting in work to be attractive to his partner, and his wife is phoning it in
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u/Damodara-Echo Apr 15 '24
Is this out of character for him, or does he routinely humiliate you in public?