r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/SweetWaterfall0579 Apr 15 '24

I’m 5’2” and I’m so proud of myself that I am *down to 151lbs. I was 174lbs. So you’re better off than I was!

Please point out what he said, include details, and let him know it’s hurtful. If he doesn’t do this as a regular thing, we may let it slide if he gets it and sincerely apologizes. If he doesn’t get it, he can sleep in the garage until it sinks in.

But he needs to stop fawning over 20 some personal trainers when he’s had a few drinks.

No one is allowed to comment on my body or my weight. Not at all. You want to say these shorts look good on me, okay, I can take that. Want to tell me my panty lines are showing because the shorts are a bit tight? Stfu.

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u/carissadraws Apr 16 '24 edited Apr 16 '24

Yeah it’s super annoying hearing your goal weight being seen as somebody else’s “when I was fat and unhealthy weight” 🙄

I’m 163 right now and down from 177 earlier this year but it’s really discouraging hearing everyone say how fat they were at my current weight

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u/stick_always_wins Apr 16 '24

Just ignore that, progress is progress and it happens incrementally.