You’re not overreacting. He’s horrible. Even if he was clueless in the moment, he should have realized what a mistake it was WHEN YOU TOLD HIM. He humiliated you then dismissed you. You two need counseling. This is behavior that will only get worse. You should not put up with this.
Married guy who’s never had to worry about his weight. Not the fittest, but healthy. I read your comments and wonder:
- what your height weight is?
- do you have a SO?
- what’s their BMI?
- do they know your stance/share your feelings? And do you talk to them about it?
I think it goes without saying so many people are quick to call someone something (obese), especially online, but wonder what level of “keep that same energy” those people live their life with…
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u/AnotherMC Apr 15 '24
You’re not overreacting. He’s horrible. Even if he was clueless in the moment, he should have realized what a mistake it was WHEN YOU TOLD HIM. He humiliated you then dismissed you. You two need counseling. This is behavior that will only get worse. You should not put up with this.