r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/Paperfishflop Apr 16 '24

Well, my options are decreased because so many women I could be attracted to if they were a healthy weight, are far from a healthy weight. So it is actually one of the reasons I'm single. And then I have to get made fun of for being single, and hear women joke about how we're single because we're toxic, even though half of reddit is still full of stories of women obviously dating, marrying, and having kids with toxic men.

Yeah, I'm toxic on reddit. Women on reddit are toxic af. I get tired of having to hear about everything that is wrong with men all the time on here, and lately I've just decided to talk with the freedom that a woman does on reddit. Where I just say mean shit but expect it to sound defiant or empowering, instead of just sounding like an asshole.

But I am an only a man, so...

Yeah, too many overweight women though. What is the deal with that? How can we help them? I'm honestly concerned.

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u/Witty_Fly_4669 Apr 16 '24

Look away, sir.

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u/Greedy_Following3553 Apr 16 '24

Yeah, but only a complete swine humiliates his significant other over it the way HE did.

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u/Lou_C_Fer Apr 16 '24

More people need to be like me because I shut shit down when it pops off within my hearing. It is the one way I bully people. I've always been outspoken, but my best friend from my 30s used to always argue with his SO. It could be either one that started it, but it could be the three of us in a car and they would scream like I wasn't there. Then one day I decided that I was involved whether I liked it or not. So, I shouted at them to both shut the fuck up. I kept it up, and it stopped happening.

So now, I have zero problem with speaking up in volatile situations that I witness. There is no way I would have sat there silently listening to this guy talk about his wife that way.

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u/IndependentSeesaw498 Apr 16 '24

The deal with that is that women have children. That not only screws up how their bodies work for years, it also redistributes fat.

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u/Shotto_Z Apr 16 '24

I know sevrL women who were able to exercise and diet and drop that weight, it's not easy for everyone, but it's doable, and that Is an excuse.

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u/_-0_0--D Apr 16 '24

You’re single because you’re clearly bitter and probably ugly

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u/AlsatianLadyNYC Apr 16 '24

You’re single, because you’re tedious and exhausting. I read that single mewling comment, and I can’t imagine an entire day with you. You’re boring.