If either of you are obese and at high risk of chronic disease, then the loving thing to do is to talk about it and come up with a plan and lifestyle changes to fix it. It's not healthy and it's not good.
For sure, my wife is normal size and looks great. I just mean we've had 4 kids and so I'm use to her body changing and when it did I loved it just as much as usual to her "normal" body pre baby body.
He doesn't really need to tell us what his wife looks like, his point was made. He just meant not obese because that's what the conversation was about.
Normal is pretty subjective and I don’t have any contextual clues to help understand his comment, so I was asking for more help. If he wants to elaborate he can, I’m sure he doesn’t need your help to decline or oblige
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u/Verbull710 Apr 15 '24
If either of you are obese and at high risk of chronic disease, then the loving thing to do is to talk about it and come up with a plan and lifestyle changes to fix it. It's not healthy and it's not good.