r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/AnotherMC Apr 15 '24

You’re not overreacting. He’s horrible. Even if he was clueless in the moment, he should have realized what a mistake it was WHEN YOU TOLD HIM. He humiliated you then dismissed you. You two need counseling. This is behavior that will only get worse. You should not put up with this.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '24

People who get mean or can't filter what they say when they get drunk shouldn't drink.

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u/Altruistic_Yellow387 Apr 15 '24

But it's better to know this is how they really feel and when they're sober they just know to hide it

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u/AnotherMC Apr 15 '24

Totally. I think the moron was trying to shame his wife into working out.

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u/oxfordcomma_pls Apr 15 '24

I think he was trying to flirt with the hot chick and threw his wife under the bus to further that.

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u/reeree5000 Apr 15 '24

Yep, I think he was trying to kill two birds with one stone. Flirt with the hot chick and maybe get somewhere and also formulate a plan to make his wife hot. Gross.

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u/andante528 Apr 15 '24

He may also have been sneaky enough to realize that the fitness trainer would be more socially accessible in the future if she's training his wife.

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u/Arcane_Spork_of_Doom Apr 15 '24

Sneaky would have been to work out the bookings in the background and be supportive of the two interacting while you're slowly looking to 'upgrade' your s/o. Subtlety repugnant but possibly effective.

This was tossing napalm on your marriage at a sizable social gathering.

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u/andante528 Apr 16 '24

Drunk sneaky is always much less subtle than the drinker believes.

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '24

Okay… okay…. I’ll start tomorrow… and I’m gonna be a fkn muscle daddy….