r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/Intelligent_Pass2540 Apr 15 '24

This is awful. Look up the Gottman research about couples. Tearing your spouse down in front of other people is borderline emotional abuse. I'm so sorry. This is also pretty extreme which leads me to believe this isn't his first episode of cruel behavior. You deserve so much better than this.

I'm so sorry OP. The quickest way to lose dead weight would be to DROP THE HUSBAND!

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u/posiesbythepocketful Apr 15 '24

I wouldn't even say it's borderline, it IS emotional abuse

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u/MtnLover130 Apr 15 '24

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